While we anticipate having a long-lasting and fulfilling relationship with our partner, often times this does not happen, it breaks your heart when you realize that your partner no longer loves you. You keep thinking of those beautiful initial years when you both were madly in love with each other. The things your partner did for you and the amazing moments you spent in each other’s arms.
While everyone wishes that this kind of love and security goes on forever in their lives, sometimes, circumstances changes and unknowingly or knowingly one partner drifts out of love. They may have found someone else, they may be too busy in their own lives or they may have simply stopped loving you.
It could also be that you are reading or thinking too much and maybe your partner is just too busy to give you any attention for a temporary period of time. It’s quite natural to feel unloved at this point but maybe your partner still loves you and has no intentions of leaving you.
This could be very confusing for you to come to a conclusion and so I have some surefire signs which prove that your partner no longer loves you. If you have experienced all these signs in your partner then maybe you need to call it quits or have a talk with him or her regarding your relation.
5 Signs That Your Partner No Longer Loves You
Spending more and more time outside with their other friends
Recently, you are realizing that your partner prefers to party out more with his friends while you stay at home. While it’s okay once a week as this gives each other some space in the relation, doing it more often is a sign that your partner prefers the company of others more than he enjoys yours.
Lack of Support
If your partner fails to support you mentally, physically and emotionally then something is wrong. We all need our partner to support us in some ways and when they fail to be there for us it can really dampen our motion. It could be that they are occupied with something else or probably someone else, but it also could mean that they just don’t want to anymore.
Spending more time on the phone while you are together
You might be recalling those moments when you were the centre of their attractions and he had ears and eyes only for you. But if you find him spending more time chatting on the phone with his/her other friends then it is a sure sign that he has started to find your company boring and maybe he/she does not love you anymore.
Forgetting birthdays, anniversaries and special plan events
Recently, they have been more forgetful about your birthdays and anniversaries and when you remind them, they don’t even appear apologetic. This is a clear sign that something is amiss in your relationship and they no longer love or cares for you like they did before.
Communication is vital in every relationship, this strengthens the bond and builds the relationship. Not communication or lacking of is a sign they are drifting. There is trouble or problems that need fixing.
Refusing outings with you on some pretext or the other
They no longer wish to go out with you be it for a movie or dinner date. They come up with excuses and instead prefers to spend time alone or with other friends. This could mean that they have fallen out of love and you need to do something about it.
Lack of love and affection
While sex is not apart of every relationship, depending on the stage you are, if your partner does show you any TLC it could be that they are genuinely not affectionate, but it could also mean they are not interested. Especially if your relationship includes sex and then start to lack then that could be a sure sign.
He/she has started fighting with you over small things
Recently, if you realize that your partner criticizes everything you do then it should ring some warning bells in your mind regarding your relationship. He/she has started to find you repulsive and it’s time to say goodbye to the relationship.
Their future plans don’t include you
Welp! If they don’t include you in future plans such as moving, changing career, buying a house etc. then obviously they don’t value you enough to make you apart of it. Hence, move on.
Ignoring the problems in your relationship
You will be the best judge of the situation as you have seen him/her in better days and are seeing them now being indifferent to you. Try to talk to him to come to a mutual solution.